Hi,
the question is whether you want to transmit a single bit, or if you want your signal to go high and stay there. In the first case, COM port should work fine, in the second case however, you should use the paralell port.
If you use the parallel port, you'll also be able to control the length of time the signal stays high more easily (it's simply to turn it high and then low).
Pins 2 thru 9 on the parallel port are output pins representing bits 0 - 7. These you can turn high or low programmatically. If you need a signal ground, that's pin 16. Also, you should tie pins 11 and 12 to another ground pin (either of the pins 18 - 25, but NOT pin 24 which is ground for the "Busy" line). Then, you'll be able to control the voltage output on the different pins (2-9) by turning the individual lines on or off.
Attached is an example code which should allow you to control the output signal on the different parallel port pins.
So basically: find pins 11 and 12, tie these to pin 18 (or 19, or 20, or 21, or 22, or 23, or 25).
find pin 2; this is bit 0. find pin 16; this is the signal GND.
measure the voltage between these two pins.
use the attached example to turn "bit 0" on and off (i.e. turn the top light on the array on and off by clicking on it); see the changes in voltage on pin 2.
If it works, reshape the code according to your own needs.
Good luck!