Of all places to look, I would look at cars. The new Toyota Celica has a detection system like this in the passenger seat. Only if someone is seated there and the seatbelt is not fashioned, the warnign light comes on. By picking up your butt, or sliding it forward on the seat, you can make the light go off. Why not try calling the service dept of your local Toyota dealer and talk to a tech there about getting one of these switches. Toyota has already done the work to determine if it can handle the weight requirements of adults.
Jared.