If you have the ActiveX control, then this shouldn't be a LV problem, but a media player problem.
I seem to recall that for a very long time media player itself didn't respond to FF and REW, but I checked now in version 10 and it seems to work. Does it work for you in media player? Does it work in other apps (let's say embedded into Powerpoint)?
As for the black screen, on occasion, WMP displays a black square instead of the video when displaying on multiple screens. I have seen it when running a movie in powerpoint and displaying it from a laptop and a projector at the same time. I think this is also an issue with WMP and may be caused by lack of memory or video card issues.
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