Your automation refnums are probably not linked to the ActiveX control. Try this... select a property node in your main VI's diagram that has the desired ActiveX control attributes displayed and then select
Edit>>Create SubVI from the menu. The automation refnum in the subVI will be linked to the ActiveX control and will work the way you want it to. Copy this to your other subVIs and the property nodes will start behaving. The other way to link the automation refnums is to right-click on them and choose select ActiveX class and then browse to your control.
-Jim