There is a KnowledgeBase item which may answer your questions:
http://digital.ni.com/public.nsf/3efedde4322fef19862567740067f3cc/4599aaa1d7c13b0e8625664a00627d7f?OpenDocument
For a download that walks you through an example of the process of embedding the Server into an executable in any scenario, see the Internet Toolkit FAQ at:
http://www.ni.com/support/labview/toolkits/internet/faq.htm
-Jim